Do Persons with Autism Lack Empathy?

              A couple of weeks ago, the handle of our old broom broke as I was sweeping the yard. I tried fixing it while C (my eleven year old son with autism) was watching. My efforts failed and decided to dispose the broom instead. Frustrated, I spent almost an hour trying to mend it for nothing. 
The next day, I was surprised to see the broom all fixed up. The handle was neatly and sturdily connected to the broom. I thanked my husband for it. But he replied,"No, I did not fix it." There are only the four of us in the house- me, my hubby, C, and our youngest son who is five years old. If it's not me, nor my husband who fixed the broken broom, then who did? While trying to figure out who, we saw C giggling while staring at us. And so we asked him,"did you fix the broom, dear?" With that radiant smile on his face, he replied, "yes."
            That was not only about an old broken broom. What made us really happy was the fact that our son took the time to help us without being asked. He showed us he cares and we matter to him. 

Finding Toys with a Purpose

  All children love toys. Special needs kids are no exception.  Actually, playing with toys can be a great way for them to have fun while their different sensory issues and development of some skills are being dealt with all at the same time. You just have to find the right toy that can serve that purpose. Also,consider your child's interest to make play time truly enjoyable.

  To find a purposive toy, you may want to consider these pointers:

1. Toys that perk up the senses

• toys that light up  - good for visual stimulation
• picture books
• toys that make sounds 
• toy clay - for tactile stimulation

2. Toys that develop motor skills

• crayons and coloring books - for development of fine motor skill
• paints & water colors - develop fine motor skill, creativity and self expression
• building blocks
• sorting and matching toys
• bicycle - helps in achieving good sense of balance

The Need to Have a "World of their Own"

  Our senses help us discover, learn and understand the world we live in and everything around us. Our perception or reactions to various stimuli that we encounter in our day to day living is governed by our senses.
  Our body is equipped with a lot of senses. The five most recognized of them are:

• sight
• hearing
• taste
• smell
• touch

  In addition to that, other senses include:

• thermoception -  sense of temperature
• proprioception - sense of position.location,orientation and movement of the body and its parts
• vestibular sense - sense of balance
• nociception - sense of pain